1. A righteous gentleman and a villain. ——"Book of Jin: The Biography of Fu Deng"
Morality can move a gentleman, and interests can move a villain.
A gentleman understands righteousness, while a petty person understands profit. Different people have different personalities and different demands. Tell the gentleman to know the righteousness, and the villain to tempt with interests. Treat different people with different methods.
2. If it is too rigid, it will break, and there will be no disciple. ——"Book of Jin, Zhou Yi Page"
If it is too straight, it will break, and if it is extremely discerning, it will have no friends. Once anything loses its proportion, it will go the other way.
3. Envy the fish in the abyss, it is better to retreat and make a net. ——"Book of Han: The Biography of Dong Zhongshu"
Standing by the deep pool, hoping to get the fish inside, it is better to go home and make a net. Just talking and not practicing fake tricks, no matter how good the idea is, it is better to take practical action.
4. A wise man thinks a thousand times and must make a mistake; Fools think a thousand times, but there must be a gain. ——"Historical Records: The Biography of the Marquis of Huaiyin"
No matter how smart a person is, there are times when he makes mistakes; No matter how stupid a person is, there are times when they succeed.
Everything in the world has two sides, and it must be dialectical rather than absolute.
5. The world is bustling, all for profit; The world is in turmoil, all for profit. ——"Historical Records: Biography of Colonialism"
The world is bustling and all for profit; The world is bustling for profit.
People die for wealth, and birds die for food. For most people, talking about interests nakedly is closer to rationality.
6. The wise see the danger in the invisible, and the wise see the disaster before it arises. ——"Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Book of Wei Twenty-Eight, Biography of Zhong Hui"
The wise can foresee danger before it forms, and the wise can be aware of disaster before it occurs.
Preventing micro-development, a true wise man can always gain insight into the future.
7. The wise man abandons his shortcomings and takes advantage of his strengths to achieve success. ——"Book of the Later Han Dynasty: The Biography of Wang Fu"
Smart people abandon their weaknesses and play to their strengths to succeed.
It is the shortcomings that determine how much water a barrel holds, but it is the longboards that determine a person's achievements. Therefore, instead of learning from strengths and making up for weaknesses, it is better to leverage strengths and avoid weaknesses.
8. A gentleman stands on his own, although he has a hundred deeds, sincerity and filial piety are the first. ——"Book of Sui: Chronicle of Emperor Wen"
Although there are many aspects of character that need to be cultivated, only sincerity and filial piety are the most important.
9. High and dangerous, every place is full and overflowing. ——"Northern History: Biography of the Concubines"
You must be aware of danger in a high position, and prevent it from overflowing when things are full.
The dragon has regrets, and the situation is extremely prosperous, and it will inevitably decline.
10. The knowledge of poverty must not be forgotten, and the wife of the chaff will not leave the hall. ——"Book of the Later Han Dynasty: Biography of Song Hong"
Everyone knows how many people are willing to serve charcoal in the snow?
Friends and wives when they were poor experienced ups and downs together, and they must not be abandoned.
11. Don't forget the past, and be the teacher of the future. ——"Historical Records of Qin Shi Huang Benji"
Eating a trench, growing a wisdom, and learning from the past can be used as a reference in the future.
12. The granary is solid and knows etiquette, and the food and clothing are sufficient and knows honor and disgrace.
The economic foundation determines the superstructure.
When the warehouse is full, the people know etiquette; When food and clothing are abundant, the people know glory and shame.
13. A loving mother has a loser and a strict family has no slaves. ——"Historical Records of Li Si's Biography"
A loving mother has children who are prodigal, and there are no cunning and fierce servants in a strict family.
Spoiling is harmful, teach him the truth of being a person and doing things, and develop good habits is true love.
14. It is impossible to muddy the source and look at the flow, bend the shape and want it to be straight. ——"Book of the Later Han Dynasty: The Biography of Liu Ban"
It is impossible to hope for clear spring water to flow from a murky source or to have a straight shadow on a distorted form.
Fish begins to rot from the head. In many things, we must treat the symptoms first and the root cause.
15. Those who follow virtue prosper, and those who go against virtue die. ——"Book of Han: Chronicle of Emperor Gao"
Those who conform to morality will prosper, and those who do not will perish.
People are the children of heaven and earth, and revering the way of heaven and morality is the way to avoid disaster.
16. Mistakes without changing are called mistakes. ——"Book of Han: The Chronicle of Emperor Cheng"
Those who don't know are not punished, and if they make mistakes and correct them, it is good.
Having faults without repentance is called fault.
17. Books are not good, but it doesn't hurt to be good. ——"Romance of the Three Kingdoms"
The only concern about reading is that people don't like it.
There is no harm in reading more books.
18. Those who make long-term plans do not care about immediate grievances, and those who do great things do not care about meticulousness. ——"Ming History: The Biography of Tang He"
People with long-term plans should not worry about a little complaint in front of them, and people who do big things do not have to take care of some trivial matters.
People's energy is always limited, don't do everything, just focus on what you are good at.
19. The legacy is full of gold, not as good as a classic. ——"Book of Han: The Biography of Wei Xian"
Leaving a basket full of gold for his son, it is better to teach him to read.
No matter how much gold there is, it will always run out one day, but reading can benefit children for life.
20. The door of blessings and goodness is more beautiful than harmony, and the first cause of trouble is internal separation. ——"Book of Han: The Biography of Liu Yu, King of Dongping"
There is no better way for blessings and goodwill than for harmony, and no greater disaster and danger than internal separation.
The ancients said: When disaster arises from the wall, the fortress is broken from within. Internal unity and harmony are the cornerstone of a happy life.
21. Thousands of people pointed out, and they died without illness. ——"Book of Han: The Biography of Wang Jia"
He was accused and cursed by everyone, and he would die even if he was not sick.
There is a dragon spring on the tongue, and there is no blood to kill.
Under the pressure of public opinion, a person can easily have a psychological breakdown.
22. Those who teach by example obey, and those who teach by words sue. ——"Book of the Later Han Dynasty: The Fifth Biography"
Teach the people with your own exemplary actions, and the people will accept your education; If you only talk and say one thing and do another, the people will not accept your education, but will give birth to right and wrong.
Tao Li is self-explanatory, and action is the best teacher.
23. The wall is high and the foundation is low, although it is gained, it must be lost. ——"Book of the Later Han Dynasty: The Biography of Guo Tai"
The towering wall, but its foundation is very low, and although such a wall is built, it will definitely collapse.
Whatever you do, you must lay a solid foundation, otherwise there will be endless troubles.
24. Don't be hungry for wealth, don't worry about poverty. ——"Book of Han: The Biography of Yang Xiong"
Don't worry and grieve for poverty, and don't pursue wealth in a hurry.
Only by removing the utilitarian desires that bind the soul can you truly enjoy the tranquility, freedom, and freedom of life.
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