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"Chess Game of Wealth" －－Revealing the inside story of love, workplace, and postgraduate entrance examination After the secretary left Hunan, he returned to the office alone, and a headache came to his mind: Do you want to reveal these shocking inside stories? I understand very well: two sides of the same body, on the one hand, revealing the secret will be able to alert and help many people, especially college students; But it is bound to offend some people, where to go? The words of several assistants in Shanghai kept coming to mind: "Mr. Cui, what we admire is not that you have 16 different work experiences, nor that you have read more than 4,000 books, nor that you have thrown off the academic threshold as a junior college to apply for a master's degree job, but your unique way of thinking. Therefore, we unanimously recommend that you sort out your experience and share it with everyone, so that you can also experience and understand it yourself: Whether it is making money or feelings, it is very simple, just change your thinking" Seriously, I take their words very seriously! Just writing this post, it is also the first time I have appeared on the forum (post bar), and maybe it is the last time in my life. But---If you really want to know the inside story of love, postgraduate entrance examination and the workplace----If you really want to break into high society and make your family happy, then I will prove it to you with my actions---This is what you read in this life---Most valuable post! The reason is simple! During college, a book, a part-time job, and a class made me wake up, and I am glad that it happened in my freshman year, otherwise I would not have been able to get to this position today and have the connections, resources, wealth and platforms that my college classmates may not have had in their lives. The former New Oriental teacher Xu Xiaoping's "Lights in the Mailbox", which contains a large number of real cases of New Oriental students, made me understand that students and even university teachers of first-class universities are also confused in love, family affection, postgraduate entrance examination, going abroad, workplace, etc. Slowly find that many people are lost in three main aspects: There is no clear plan, There is no internal drive to persist, and it is seriously bound by traditional thinking The essence of solving these problems is to experience and think independently, and participating in various trainings only treats the symptoms rather than the root cause. I have also participated in training before, teaching us how to overcome fear, how to plan, how to have perseverance, how to change, etc., whether it is listening to subliminal recordings or autosuggestion, it is difficult to work, and slowly we will understand: The effectiveness of all training largely depends not on who the teacher is, but on who participates. If you have experienced a lot of things, as long as you have the habit of thinking, your heart will gradually become stronger and less easily affected by external remarks and traditional concepts. When most boys like a girl to chase, I don't do this, but I know very well that once the idea of chasing is together, I will lose the main control, and in order to chase the girl, I will generally give gifts and create romance, in short, the boy will always think about how to make the other party happy, let the other party accept him, and have no time and energy to make himself better, and have the strength and qualifications of the person in charge. Far worse, put your time and energy on yourself, make yourself better, so as to attract the girls you like, and the result is also mutual improvement. And the preservative of love is not to care about each other, but to make progress with each other. A woman can only maintain her charm for a long time if she maintains financial independence and mental progress, and the moment she reaches out to her husband for money, she has lost the right to speak in this family, and she is very happy that her girlfriend understands this. The change in my thinking about making money stemmed from a part-time job, breaking corn for people in a village near the school for a day30Yuan. In the same village, it was found that some people hired students to work, some people did it themselves, and a careful investigation found that the families that hired students were very rich, they knew how to get the maximum return with the minimum investment, spent a little money to let students work, did more profitable things by themselves, and also gained a good reputation for providing part-time opportunities for students; And most of those families who work by themselves are poor, and they make money by selling their physical strength all their lives. But at the core is a completely different way of thinking. Just like the bank's business model. If you observe in front of any bank all morning, you will find a phenomenon: most of the Mercedes-Benz and BMW are for loan business, while most of the bicycles and electric vehicles are for deposit business. The thinking of the rich is: Spend money, and then think about how to make more money back from the money you spend. The poor thinking: Save money, and if you have money, deposit it in the bank. The money loaned by the rich is the money saved by the poor, as long as the rich earn more than the interest on the bank capital with this money within a fixed period of time, it is earned.
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